First morning after daylight saving is always confusing.
Today was no exception.
Shoshannah had arrived home somewhere around the 3am mark – but whether it was before or after the clock changed we still don’t know.
It was still late and she didn’t have enough sleep.
She battled on and was way better than we all expected.
Mainly because she had planned a bbq today in honour of her 18th birthday.
Well, she called it a bbq but actually she had no idea what the facilities on Rabbit Island were like so lets just call it a picnic 😉
While I was waiting on everyone to surface I put out the garage sale items and opened the gate for a couple of hours.
Only two or three people ventured in and one sale was made.
Once we were all ready to go I called into the supermarket to pick up some food to take along.
We arrived at Rabbit Island around 1pm and spent some time trying to find Clare & Chrissy who had arrived first.
It is a bit of a maze with all the one way roads and myriads of picnic areas so after circling the mulberry bush about three times we finally located the girls.
It was a lovely spot – a daisy strewn field with a picnic table.
Shanni spread out the blankets and unloaded the food.
Soon the rest of her friends arrived, some by car and others on their bikes.
Dave brought Sophie & Katherine so I sat and enjoyed some adult conversation with him for ages.
Then David & Sasha arrived with their bbq, so we could actually say it officially was a bbq 😉
The afternoon was spent reclining in the sun, eating, drinking iced juice, socialising and playing games.
Azzan was the only young male in the group and wasn’t at all phased.
He had my camera so that kept him and Sophie & Mahalia occupied.
It was lovely on the beach, albeit a tad breezy.
The girls spent some time sunbathing on the sand.
It was all too soon 5pm and we had to pack up.
Shanni with her International friends.
Shanni being Shanni 🙂
And Shanni with her Kiwi friends, except Jillian who had left already.
We called into David & Sasha’s on the way home to pick up some stuff.
Then back to the house to meet up with Seb & Phoebe who had just returned from their Christchurch visit.
Clare & Shoshannah went home with Seb in his truck, and once Phoebe had revitalised with some food, a few stretches and a rest, Azzan hopped in with her & Sapphie so he could help to keep her awake on the last leg of their journey.
Quiet reigned supreme once they had all gone and Mahalia & I collapsed into bed.
I was up early to prepare for the garage sale.
We had signed up as part of the Treasure Trail in The Wood.
It was the first time I had ever had a garage sale and was a bit nervous about it.
The kids were very keen to do it.
Azzan especially as it is vitally important to him that we de-junk.
I totally understand him, as I am not coping well with all the boxes of stuff that have followed us here from the farm.
Shanni was happy to be heading off to work as she wasn’t that interested in it all.
Mahalia had gone to rowing so didn’t get back to help until we were about to start.
Nathan was up in time to help me set it all out.
Azzan biked to the market before 8am to pick up his beanie from a friend and then biked back to the supermarket afterwards to buy some disposable cups.
He had made a large urn of lemon drink and made himself some pocket money by selling cup full of it.
The morning turned very warm so people were happy to have a cool drink.
There were people at the gate way before 9am.
It was scheduled to begin at 9:30am and we were still flat out setting up so we turned some away but then relented and opened early just after 9am.
It was a very sociable time.
Ursula & Bill set up a table here too.
Plenty of room for us all 🙂
A couple of lads came by and asked how much the truck was.
I didn’t think Seb would be that happy about turning tomorrow and finding I’d sold his truck so Mahalia wrote not for sale on the tailgate!
All in all it was a successful morning.
Azzan had to bike off to tennis at 12:30pm but he was happy to have been part of most of it.
We closed the gates at 1:30pm and did a big clean up.
Between them Nathan & Mahalia made short work of returning Ursula’s stuff over the fence rather than having them trundle it right around the street.
Good to have young strong bodies to help 🙂
Shoshannah arrived home from work and Nathan headed off to his work later on.
Azzan arrived back just as the girls and I were leaving to go celebrate at the Sprig.
We found a table outside and enjoyed curly fries and cold drinks.
Azzan was being a bit cheeky so we were quite happy when he wanted to go home before we did.
Shanni was tired from work so walked back soon after him.
Mahalia was not at all happy at how her li’l bro had been speaking to me and encouraged me to not accept his behaviour.
So on return I had a bit of a chat with him.
I can see some pubescent behaviour kicking in and I also realise I need to nip some of it in the bud now as it will be a lot harder once he is another year or so older.
He is a delightful, caring, loving young lad.
He has a lot to offer the world but I know without a strong male figure in his life it will be harder for him.
I am so glad he is enjoying spending time with his big brothers.
Shanni spent her afternoon preparing to go out to the Devilskin Mountains and the Moon Tour at Rattle & Hum bar with Anson, Marah, David, Breyon & Laurie.
She was ready early in the evening, wish I had taken a photo cuz she looked lovely.
She had to wait for all the others to get into town and they were way later than they anticipated.
It took a while for Marah to settle the girls for their babysitter – I think they instinctively knew Mum & Dad were escaping 😉
So finally around 9pm they called so I took Shanni into Breyon & Laurie’s motel and she joined the party from there.
I came home to find my two babies had gone off to bed so I ran myself a bath.
Set up my laptop on a chair and reclined for while.
Soaked my aching body in some Epsom Salts.
Watched a long documentary on Netflix about The World’s Fattest Man.
It was really interesting.
Woke up after 11pm and realised I had slept through half of it.
Those salts really do relax you!
I woke at 4:45am and realised Mahalia was not yet up.
Woke her soon after, it is the first ,morning she has slept through.
I made her porridge while she quickly got herself ready.
She was out the door by 5:15am.
Amazing how quickly you can do it when you have to.
Shanni was off to work around 8am.
It was her last Gateway day on the building site.
Azzan got himself fed and lunch packed while I showered.
Mahalia flew in just before we left.
I dropped Azzan at the marina at 8:30am where he was joining his classmates for an educational morning sail on Steadfast.
I wanted to go have a look at the yacht and the marina as I hadn’t been in that area before but there was no way on this planet that my lad was going to get out of the car if I did.
So I got back in the car and let him go off to hang with his mates until the teachers arrived.
But he did get a hard time when he got home about it 😉
Not long after I got home a little visitor toddled up the hallway to find ‘Nonna, Nonna…..’
Interspersed with ‘woof woof, woof woof,’ as she talked to Caspian and then to me in great excitement at having finally arrived after their 3 hour drive.
Phoebe & Sapphie had left early as they were enrolee to Christchurch to go visit some new cousins.
Sapphie was very excited about the prospect of meeting some babies 🙂
I left them to have some breakfast and I zipped back into town to meet Seb at the lawyers.
We had some papers to sign.
Got that job out of the way and then back home so they could rearrange vehicles.
Seb left his work truck here and they went the rest of the way in Phoebe’s car.
Nathan woke in time to hang out with them for a short time.
Just before they left I captured these few photos of the wee cutie – love the changing expressions.
Waved goodbye to them and then tried to get some office work done.
Gay arrived at the door so was a welcome distraction.
I feel a little bit like Bernard Black in Black Books when he was trying to do his tax and kept welcoming and inventing distractions!
It was such a beautiful day I got Caspian’s lead and walked with Gay to her friend Kevin’s place.
It was lovely to meet him, a delightful elderly gentleman with an equally wonderful garden.
Had a stroll around and admired all the fruit and veggies.
Left feeling very inspired.
Took the long route home so Caspian got a decent outing.
I was on pager so was staying reasonable close to home.
It has been so quiet lately, which is a good thing ultimately, but I almost forget I have it in my pocket.
I had just begun back at my desk when I received a plaintive request from a very tired young son who needed a ride home.
Why so tired??
‘I have just had 2 periods of PE and the whole morning sailing and I am so tired.’
The car was out on the street so I zipped up and got him.
Back home to find Mahalia’s dilemma about her model and timeframe tomorrow was not yet solved.
There had been a last minute hiccup happen yesterday which she had been trying to work out but so far the tutors hadn’t sorted it.
I was cross as she was running out of time so insisted she called the head tutor.
Should’ve done that way sooner – to was all sorted in minutes!
She got herself all ready to go stay with Sophie for the night so they could practise the makeup and hair for next day.
So I left Nathan to cook dinner and we took Caspian for a ride.
He was so funny when he met their cat.
He has not yet felt the sharp end of a cats greeting so we were keeping him on tight rein.
But once the cat found some higher ground he was allowed off leash.
He was still incredibly curious.
Mahalia diverted him outside to meet Missy, their dog.
They had a wonderful time tearing around like mad idiots.
I chatted with Dave about gardening and landscaping ideas, and Sam had some Caspian cuddles before we left.
Nathan had made a delicious stir fry beef dish with rice.
I carried on with my office work while it cooked.
We had dinner, Shanni cleaned up, all off to bed early and I carried on getting the scanning & banking done.
I wanted to be in bed earlier but knew if I didn’t make the most of the uninterrupted peace and quiet it would be another week before I got it done.
Finally crashed out around 10pm.
Woke with renewed vigour today.
Must’ve slept better.
Had things to do this morning so I was up and through the shower before 7am.
It was raining.
Azzan headed off to school and soon after I received some photos of a very strange thing in Hardy Street!
We found out later what the story was – you can read about it here.
I passed by later and took these photos.
The dry ice was no longer wafting about so the effect was not the same as when Azzan biked past.
I dropped Mahalia off at NMIT then had time to quickly run in and change some tops at Jay Jay’s.
Then a fast call into the bank and up to Prep.
I got there early so waited in the car for 10 mins but Azzan is so used to me being early he was stressing that I was late.
Then he took me on a meandering tour around the college to get to reception.
I was sure I knew a quicker way but as he is a Prep boy and doesn’t have to access the front of the College he only knew the route they take when playing games at break time.
So by the time we arrived at the desk I was out of puff, but we were still early enough I had time to regain my equilibrium 🙂
We were soon called into the Year 9 Dean’s office and had a very enjoyable interview with him.
Azzan was incredibly nervous but I found the whole process to be very friendly and welcoming.
Afterwards I followed one happy boy back to his class area in a more direct route.
Left him to continue his day and I came back home.
Then I whizzed back into the city to meet Mahalia at lunch time.
She needed to get some make up for her model for the 1950’s competition they are having on Friday.
We thankfully found a helpful shop assistant and soon had everything she needed.
Walking along the street and I saw an old friend who I have recently been trying to track down.
Hadn’t see Annie for years and years so was overjoyed to finally catch up.
We chatted for too long so Mahalia said goodbye and headed back to polytec.
After exchanging phone numbers we parted company promising to catch up real soon for a proper talk.
That encounter so made my day 🙂
I walked upstairs to change my appointment at Rennaissance and then did a wee tour around the Wednesday Farmers Market.
Jana was there with Colin so had a quick convo with them.
It was a tad drizzly so my umbrella came in handy.
Except when I was trying to juggle too may things in my hands at the bread stall and dropped everything.
Back to the car and home for a while.
I went to bed for an hour or so as I was really tired – decided to rest up while I could.
Glynnie popped later in to use the internet.
She and Nathan discovered sparring partners as they each had differing views on world events.
It was rather comical to observe 🙂
Azzan is a keen follower of Pinterest and had been wanting to make some bacon & egg muffin things for a while, so tonight he got to and did them.
They certainly looked ‘interesting’.
But I guess to some, as long as there is bacon involved it will pass muster 😉
Mahalia got inspired so made a veggie option with eggs in pastry.
They were certainly interesting.
All have been eaten so weren’t that bad!
I finally managed to make the pear ginger sponge pudding.
It is mainly sponge with not a lot of pear.
Just needs lots of milk or custard or ice cream.
But hey! Can’t complain.
Mum actually made pudding.
First time in can’t remember when!!
This morning was not a good.
I was feeling like total rubbish.
Thankfully once the kids had all headed off to school I had nothing on till later in the day.
My head, shoulders, back, stomach – all aching, feeling sick and so cold.
Once they were gone I went and had a soak in the bath with magnesium sulphate in the hopes that it would help to relax me.
Several of us had tried to get the fire going for me but it was a dismal failure.
Thankfully after the bath my body core had warmed way up.
I was sitting at the table trying to eat breakfast when Glynnie arrived at the door with a big smile.
My morning slowly began to improve.
Nothing like a friend to help raise the spirits.
After a while I threw some salad into a couple of ciabatta buns and we munched on them as we took Caspian for a walk.
It was good to get out and stretch the legs and clear the head.
It was threatening to rain as we left but thankfully held off.
I love this neighbourhood.
There are some really interesting homes and artwork to pique interest as I walk.
Today I spotted this blackboard at someones entrance.
Bub Bridger - 1924
If you love me
Bring me flowers
Clutched in your fist
Like a torch
No orchids or roses
No florist's bow
Risk your life for them
Up the sharp hills
In the teeth of the wind
If you love me
Bring me daisies
That I will cram
In a bright vase
And marvel at
We walked back along the river
Caspian stopped to talk to some dogs behind fences along the way.
Back home again and Glynnie headed off.
I drove out to Richmond for the parent teacher interviews.
Got there early so sat and chilled for 20 mins.
Then chatted with Shanni’s English teacher.
He was absolutely delighted with her progress.
Was so impressed with her work ethic, her ability to come directly & immediatley to him with queries and her ability to action critiques.
She has blossomed since last year, has faced challenges square on and is looking at finishing her year with a really good achievement.
Then on to her Psychology teacher who also had nothing but praise for her.
Loved having her in the class.
She is focused and works hard and puts 100% into it all.
She was thrilled to tell me Shoshannah had attained an excellence just today!
Her Outdoor Ed teacher was away on camp so I went directly to her Gateway advisor.
I spent an hour with her.
She was amazingly helpful.
A very persistent woman who insisted on checking out all the career path options that Shanni is looking at to see how they will work and to ensure she doesn’t get mucked around in the system.
After many phone calls to tertiary institutions and internet searches I came away with my brain in overload.
But a good overload as it was all helpful and gives Shoshannah information to assist her as she heads into her next phase of life.
Nathan had gone to German class and Shoshannah to Youth group so only Mahalia & Azzan were home.
Azzan was getting ready for Sea Cadets but there was some confusion as to what was happening tonight.
Finally after many phone calls I managed to discover that the reason we were so confused was that we had not been put on the email list so we hadn’t been getting any of the weekly info.
So he changed out of his uniform and into some warm civvies.
We got Caspian sorted and the three of us were out the door again.
Dropped Azzan off for his end of term fun night and Mahalia & I popped into the Vic Rose for dinner.
Nathan had sent me some vouchers so as it was just the two of us for dinner tonight I accepted them.
Mahalia ordered the tomato & mozzarella tart with salad and roast potatoes.
And I had the chicken burger with onion rings.
Both meals were really good.
Mahalia had enough to take home the leftovers for lunch tomorrow so that was a bonus.
We sat and talked over some of her career options as she had been to another interview today.
It is good to have a one on one date night just to touch base and talk without interruption.
Life is so busy with everyone going in all directions that often we don’t connect properly for ages.
We didn’t dally long as we were both weary.
Once I ascertained that Nathan & Shanni could pick up Azzan from Sea Cadets I fell into my bed.
I was still body achingly weary.
Mahalia took Caspian for a quick run around the block.
Azzan reported in on return, they had been doing stuff around town.
Mock injuries/accidents and rescues and reports.
Apparently he was commended for doing the most informative and detailed report.
Should that surprise me?
Nathan left for work before I was up this morning.
Mahalia & I had planned to walk up to the Miyazu Gardens for the annual Japanese Cherry Blossom Festival so I was looking forward to a relaxed day.
I was still in bed when Azzan came and crashed beside me.
When he heard that we were going to the festival he was a bit sad as he had been making other plans for his day.
But he couldn’t fit everything in and transport was a big problem and everything all of a sudden just got far too hard and far too huge in his head.
I told him to think it all over and make a decision as to what he could manage.
I’m juggling a fine line at present with allowing him to make a lot of his own decisions but also keeping him level.
He gets very anxious about time and the speed of it.
His mind just starts whirling out of control and I see him wanting to shut everything down to make it all stop.
I totally get it too – its like ‘Help! Stop the world, I wanna get off!!!’
I wanted to take his bike to the shop so the repairs could get underway asap so we left Mahalia walking the puppy and Azzan & I zipped into town.
Despite the Bike Barn advertising that it opens on Sundays at 11am, everything was locked up so we went round the corner to Torpedo 7.
What amazing service.
The staff were more than helpful.
We had 3 people falling over themselves to ensure we were sorted.
Such a different vibe from the Bike Barn.
Had a good look at the damage, looks like it was a freak accident which was more than likely caused from the previous mechanical job done at BB not being done properly.
The damage was far greater than I realised so I left it to be assessed for a quote.
While there we had a good talk to them about what sort of bike would be better for Azzan.
Found one in particular that was perfect and he loved the colours too – most of the others were orange which was you can imagine didn’t float his boat 😉
They got him set up with a helmet and he went out for a test ride.
I can see why Marty from Ride-On recommended these guys, they know their stuff and they are incredibly supportive and knowledgeable.
He returned with a big smile on his face 🙂
I bit the bullet and bought it as I can see he will get far more use from it as he is keen on mountain biking.
It is a Giant Talon 3.
And there is no orange on it 😉
When doing the maths I realised that the first bike I bought from Bike Barn was supposedly around $1000 reduced to less than $500 in their sale.
This bike is way more sturdier and superior in quality and was just under $1000.
Both bikes full prices were similar but the quality was vastly different.
No comparison really.
Very very tired from lack of sleep – not sure why they call them sleep-overs?
Rest of the day was very quiet.
Kids got themselves ready for Monday morning.
They sorted the washing and cleared the kitchen as best they could.
Shanni was in bed by 7:30pm and Mahalia was not far behind!
Was up early to get ready for the garage sale.
It was clear but the forecast was not so.
I had been checking several websites and getting very mixed messages.
None were saying much rain though.
But before 8am the heavens opened and the rain poured down and the temperatures dropped incredibly low.
I was thankful I had covered up the pile of stuff outside under the eves.
I grabbed the yellow raincoat Martin had given me last week – most grateful for that Martin – thank you 🙂
And found a third tarpaulin and draped and tucked and tried to cover the pile better.
Dragged some more timber over to prevent the wind from blowing them away and prayed that it would be enough to keep it all dry.
At 8:30am I got a message from Mahalia asking if I could pick her up and please bring towels.
So I grabbed several and shot down to the marina.
She was soaked, blue, and shaking from the cold.
Thankfully Leita had bundled her up in a blanket in her car while she waited for me.
Several of the crew had gotten almost hypothermic.
Later we saw snow down low on the hills just behind us so no wonder it was so cold.
Leita had a bike carrier so she tied Mahalia’s bike on and brought it back for us.
I sent Mahalia in to warm up in the spa bath.
No arguments on that score.
She was seriously cold.
Azzan was incredibly disappointed that the garage sale was postponed.
I sorta wasn’t.
But on the other hand we were all eared up so it was a bit of a bummer.
But it didn’t take long to change direction of the day.
Azzan voiced his need for a decent pencil case so we hopped int he car and headed to his choice of shop – Smuggle.
Of course the one he found was not on sale – typical.
But he was happy so main objective accomplished.
Then I had a couple of old Jay Jay’s gift cards with a total of $7.49 which had been weighing heavy in my wallet for months so we popped next door to visit Jane and see what was on offer there.
A huge sale was on offer!
I called up the girls and Nathan dropped them off so they could check it out too.
Finally many shopping bags were filled and well left with a lot more than $7.49 spent.
We came back home and when Nathan returned from the gym Shanni took off in the car.
She drove out to Mahana for a sleepover with some of her school friends.
Steve arrived for a visit with his young daughter who Caspian decided was a bit of alright.
We chatted while Mahalia heated up leftovers for lunch.
Azzan biked up to tennis and then called to say something was terribly wrong with his wheel so Steve offered to pop in and check it out.
I got myself ready to leave.
Actually Mahalia got me ready to leave.
I was just feeling like I couldn’t raise any enthusiasm to do anything or go anywhere.
Really listless and lacking energy.
So I reclined back on a chair in the sunroom soaking up some Vitamin D and let Mahalia work her magic.
She applied all my make up and after the rest and pampering I felt so much better.
Sophie arrived to hang out with her.
I got changed into some very cheerful clothing which did in fact cheer up not only me but quite a few others 🙂
Cuz how can this hoodie and these shoes not make you happy 🙂
Steve dropped Azzan and bike back.
It definitely was seriously damaged.
The chain had flicked off and caught some safety guard thingee and created mayhem.
The kids loaded it into my car so I could drop it at bike shop later.
I walked up to Sprig to meet some friends but there was a misunderstanding between which Sprig so Rebecca picked me up and we drove to meet Trish at Hardy St.
Jenni arrived a bit later.
We don’t get to hang out much so its nice to take the opportunity when we can.
We had time for some coffee and cake before heading off to a work meeting.
I was still feeling really achey and tired.
Weird sorta muscle kink aches in my neck and back that just needed some massage but that wasn’t available unfortunately.
It’s hard to sit and concentrate when the brain is fuzzing about
Was very glad when we were released.
The night was still young so Jenni, Rebecca and I decided to go have some dinner at Cafe Affair.
Nathan was working so it was a nice excuse to see him too.
We had a lovely quiet evening together.
It was finally time to face our responsibilities and head homewards.
Rebecca dropped me off.
Mahalia & Azzan had gone to bed and locked me out 😦
Finally Azzan let me in and I headed off to bed.